I dated a guy who told me he’d dump me if I put on 10 pounds; I can’t imagine a women ever saying that. #Not All Women and #Not All Men — but there are trends that I’ve noticed from my experience, and talking to other people about their experience.However, I have definitely received a frosty “no calls returned” after voicing a few controversial political opinions. Women often won’t complain, but will seethe in silent dissatisfaction. And these trends have reasons that I’ll get into later. So, the nice part of this is that, once you make the cut, you have relative freedom.Men don’t date me because they think we can have a nice life together, they date me men who didn’t want kids, I have never dated one. I’m constantly plagued by the fear that strongly attracted to women, I often just end up feeling like an outlier.They’re a little rare.)There is also something a little bit socially darwinian about the whole thing. I feel like I’m some weirdo, as if there’s something wrong with me.You don’t get a chance, which usually leads the first two being the criteria of judgement. They used to get social status from the men they married — and, it seems like this mindset has continued (and, even penetrated into the lesbian community.) Additionally, women continue to earn less than men, and often need help with the logistical aspects of life.
And, maybe you think that lesbians aren’t like straight women on this front, but enough of them are for it to be inconvenient.Men with no friends or existing social life get ignored and rejected by women (especially online) Being a loner and single as a man often means attractive or average women do not show any interest in you.Guys send messages out on online dating websites, but get little or no replies.American men will rush to get you in bed as quick as possible, while European men don’t appear to have the same rush (or desperation). European men don’t ‘date’ – in the formal way that Americans are used to.The types of dates seen in movies – the formal ask, the fancy dinner and the entire dance that ensues simply doesn’t exist in the European mindset, in fact, the word “dating” isn’t even a part of their lexicon. Unlike American culture, where there’s almost a rite of passage which takes two people from “hooking up” to “seeing each other” to “dating” to “exclusive”, these labels just aren’t a focus or concern for European men. Rather, the mentality is, “I like you, I want to see you, and if it’s enjoyable, let’s keep seeing each other”.